{"id":2086,"date":"2013-07-23T07:00:58","date_gmt":"2013-07-23T11:00:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=2086"},"modified":"2013-07-23T12:13:02","modified_gmt":"2013-07-23T16:13:02","slug":"wrestling-with-the-in-between","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=2086","title":{"rendered":"Wrestling With The In-Between"},"content":{"rendered":"

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I am reading this book which is really provoking me. I\u2019m sure you all heard me speak of Jeff Goins<\/a>. Well, I am reading an advanced copy of his new book called, The In-Between<\/i><\/a>, which is coming out on August 1st<\/sup>.<\/p>\n

I just started reading it and can\u2019t put it down. I absolutely love the way Jeff Goins writes. He is never boring. He also exudes wisdom in his writing. He\u2019s an old soul. I also find myself relating to much of what he writes. I\u2019m not going to give it all away because I want you to read and experience it for yourself. I will also be posting a review when I am done.<\/p>\n

He is really making me think. The kind of deep, looking at yourself kind of thinking. I find myself stopping, remembering, and making connections in my own life. This is the reason why I follow his blog because not only is it good writing, but he really makes you think and gives you meat to chew on. I aspire to write like him.<\/p>\n

I know, I know, I am not really comparing myself to him although I can\u2019t help but admit I truly wish I can write like he does. But then, I wouldn\u2019t be myself, right?<\/p>\n

I go through a liturgy within myself of all the reasons why no one would like my writing. Why would anyone bother reading what I write? There are people like Jeff Goins<\/a>, Chris Brogan<\/a>, Seth Godin<\/a>, Steven Pressfield,<\/a> and Andi Cumbo<\/a>. I mean, who in the world wants to read what I have to say?<\/p>\n

Which is why I totally feel dejected and rejected when someone unfollows or unfriends me. I get repulsed with myself in the sense that I\u2019m being totally self-absorbed and pathetic.<\/p>\n

Why do I want to matter so much? Why do I want everyone in the world to like and accept me? What is this thing inside of me that wants me to be like everyone else instead of being myself, being happy with myself and that being good enough?<\/p>\n

I mean, for goodness sake, I\u2019m going to be 47 years old. You would think I would grow up already and display some sort of maturity here? I feel like I\u2019m still stuck in high school, trying to be accepted by my peers. To be in the \u201cin\u201d group and part of the cool clique. I believe this may even be called narcissism.<\/p>\n

I wrestle within myself; one part of me says, Who cares what people think about you, your writing, or what you have to say? The next minute I\u2019m licking my wounds from someone unfollowing me because they didn\u2019t like what I had to say.<\/p>\n

Jeff Goins says, You don\u2019t write for other people; you write for yourself. You don\u2019t write for accolades; you write because you have to. You see? He\u2019s so smart.<\/p>\n

In his book, The In-Between<\/i><\/a>, he discusses writing as a calling. I\u2019m trying to figure out if writing is my calling or not. With so many talented writers out there, where do I fit in?<\/p>\n

I don\u2019t have the answer, but despite the resistance to write and publish, I will continue\u2026 as hard as it is for me\u2026 I will try to be brave and courageous as those I mentioned above and not give up.<\/p>\n

What about you? Do you go through this as a writer? How do you battle the resistance and the incessant negative voices?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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