{"id":2953,"date":"2014-12-10T07:00:09","date_gmt":"2014-12-10T12:00:09","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=2953"},"modified":"2014-12-10T11:55:50","modified_gmt":"2014-12-10T16:55:50","slug":"no-one-is-born-a-racist","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=2953","title":{"rendered":"No One Is Born A Racist"},"content":{"rendered":"

Recently,\u00a0our country has been so divided. Racism is alive and well. But no one is born a racist.<\/p>\n

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Racism is taught and a learned behavior. I am thankful that\u00a0even though I grew up around\u00a0it, I did not allow it to influence me.\u00a0I touched on this in my previous post<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Children are taught to fear other races and cultures that are different from their own. But a child doesn’t know the difference.<\/p>\n

Despite being taught to stay within my own demographic, I wasn’t able to. I was attracted and gravitated to the black community early on.<\/p>\n

As a child, my family planned trips to Sunken Meadow Park. We would first go to the picnic area and have breakfast. Afterwards, we headed over to the beach area. I loved staying in the water for hours, to the point my hands were\u00a0wrinkled, and my body,\u00a0sunburned.<\/p>\n

I remember there were a group of black kids playing in the water. They were all laughing and enjoying themselves. They\u00a0were vivacious, fun and energetic. I was attracted\u00a0to their vibe, and started\u00a0playing with them. We all had a blast.<\/p>\n

I remember going back to where my family was to get something to drink. I immediately got “shade” and remarks. Call it rebellion, defiance or whatever, I did not fold. I went right back and continued playing with my friends.<\/p>\n

This was one of many scenarios\u00a0I faced growing up amongst those who feared\u00a0the “other”. I wouldn’t have known the difference between white,\u00a0black, brown or yellow, if I wasn’t taught or subject to\u00a0it.<\/p>\n

Things\u00a0went up a notch when I became a teenager, the fear and dread of my dating the black and brown boys was too much for them to handle. They tried setting\u00a0me up with a boy from Spain, who was smart and had a great future. He was on his way to medical school to become a doctor on full scholarship. The dude digged me, but he wasn’t my type.<\/p>\n

My grandmother went and bought a beautiful dress for me to wear to his prom. However, they didn’t ask me if I wanted to go to his prom in the first place. They\u00a0were forcing me\u00a0to be with him, to try and\u00a0distract me from the other boys I liked.<\/p>\n

It didn’t work. I\u00a0refused to\u00a0go to his prom. My grandmother had no choice but to return the beautiful dress she bought me. She was angry at me. She wanted me to be with this guy in the worst way. But, eventually she came around and understood that I had my own taste in men. Eventually, she embraced my boyfriends.<\/p>\n

My heart longs for the day when racism and division ceases. My heart aches for my black brothers and sisters who have suffered and continue to suffer\u00a0at the hands of the white man. Please know I am standing with you in solidarity and protesting against the injustice.<\/p>\n

Do you believe we are not born a racist? I would love to hear your thoughts.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Recently,\u00a0our country has been so divided. Racism is alive and well. But no one is born a racist. Racism is taught and a learned behavior. I am thankful that\u00a0even though I grew up around\u00a0it, I did not allow it to influence me.\u00a0I touched on this in my previous post. Children are taught to fear other […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0},"categories":[10],"tags":[794,864,869,868,870,867],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2953"}],"version-history":[{"count":10,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2964,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2953\/revisions\/2964"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2953"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2953"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2953"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}