{"id":3152,"date":"2015-06-23T09:46:14","date_gmt":"2015-06-23T13:46:14","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=3152"},"modified":"2015-06-23T11:03:33","modified_gmt":"2015-06-23T15:03:33","slug":"fakes-frauds-opportunists","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=3152","title":{"rendered":"Fakes, Frauds & Opportunists"},"content":{"rendered":"

I haven’t been in the urban genre circle for long. But in my short time, I’ve had certain people tell me to be careful, because not everyone in this business is your friend.<\/p>\n

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What’s interesting is that these same people, who I believed had my best interest in mind and had my back, were the very ones who stabbed it.<\/p>\n

It is a sad shame when people portray an image of themselves, only to find out they were frauds.<\/p>\n

Some people come into your life with an agenda and that is, to use and exploit you. I call them\u00a0opportunists. They study and watch you from the sidelines, to figure out what you can do\u00a0to help them. They seek\u00a0and prey upon good, selfless and giving people.<\/p>\n

They will say anything to get you to do what they want, until they’ve exhausted their use of you. As soon as they believe you have nothing left to give or offer them, they no longer have any interest in you. They will act as if you never existed.<\/p>\n

They are manipulators, schemers and users who only care about themselves. They are out for themselves and what they can get, even if it’s at your expense.\u00a0They will use their words masterfully to convince and deceive you with their lies and deception.<\/p>\n

They will smile to your face, but speak negatively about you behind your back. Thereby, turning others against you in the process.<\/p>\n

This is what I’ve experienced recently, and it was a hard, painful, costly, but valuable lesson for me to learn. One of which opened my eyes to the reality that people aren’t always what they seem, appear or what you would like to believe. They put on a good front and hide behind their\u00a0mask<\/a>.<\/p>\n

You are probably wondering how I wound up\u00a0in the urban genre circle? Well, I’ve always enjoyed watching mafia and gangster movies since I was a teenager. I never knew about this genre until about approximately nine months ago. I enjoy the raw, real, grittiness of the writing.<\/p>\n

I am not familiar with the streets or the game… this isn’t the world I was raised in or grew up around. I guess because of that, it always intrigued and fascinated me. But never did I fathom that I would fall prey or victim to it in the process of helping others.<\/p>\n

What is the solution going forward? I’m not quite sure, but for one, I’m definitely going to be more careful and not be so trusting. Trust and respect is earned, not freely given. But, I am the type of person who genuinely seeks and wants to see the good in people, until they betray me. I’m not interested in being chewed up and spit out by the people in this business. I don’t want to become heartless or ruthless as a result of getting burned by selfish people. All I’m interested in is reading, reviewing books and promoting authors who I believe craft unique plots, interesting characters and, are great writers. That’s it.<\/p>\n

All that other “stuff” doesn’t interest me. So I humbly request that those\u00a0with their personal agendas stay as far away from me as possible, because I’m not in this genre or business to be used, abused or exploited\u00a0by anyone\u00a0who wishes to utilize my gifts and talents for their benefit. I’m a professional and I take my work and time seriously.<\/p>\n

Have you had a similar experience? \u00a0How did you go about handling it?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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