{"id":735,"date":"2012-08-03T00:00:24","date_gmt":"2012-08-03T04:00:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=735"},"modified":"2012-08-03T09:33:02","modified_gmt":"2012-08-03T13:33:02","slug":"right-where-you-are-by-tammy-helfrich","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?p=735","title":{"rendered":"Right Where You Are by Tammy Helfrich"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I am honored to have Tammy Helfrich guest post today.\u00a0 She is a remarkable and godly woman whom I have had the pleasure of meeting on the Micheal Hyatt Platform Launch Team.\u00a0 I really enjoy reading her posts as she never fails to bless me.\u00a0 Please be sure to follow her <a href=\"www.tammyhelfrich.com\/Cached\">Blog<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/TammyHelfrichBlog\">Facebook<\/a>\u00a0|\u00a0<a href=\"twitter.com\/tammyhelfrich\">Twitter<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>A theme has continued to come to my mind over and over lately.<\/p>\n<p><em><strong>You can make a difference right where you are.<\/strong> <\/em><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_739\" style=\"width: 235px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/?attachment_id=739\" rel=\"attachment wp-att-739\"><img aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-739\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-739\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/hands-225x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"225\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/hands-225x300.jpg 225w, http:\/\/www.ordinaryservant.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/07\/hands.jpg 375w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 225px) 100vw, 225px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-739\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Courtesy of Creative Commons<\/p><\/div>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to become a missionary and move to Africa.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to start a nonprofit.<\/p>\n<p>You don&#8217;t have to save the world in one day.<\/p>\n<p>After years of fighting with God, I finally gave up the illusion of control I thought I had. I surrendered everything to Him. But shortly afterwards, I was conflicted. I wanted to do something that mattered. I wanted to do something BIG. I wanted to change the world!<\/p>\n<p>As I wrestled with this, I kept hearing God&#8217;s voice.<\/p>\n<p><em>Make a difference here. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Right where you are. <\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Stop and pay attention to the people I&#8217;ve placed around you.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>That was eye-opening for me. I started thinking hard about that and spent lots of time talking with God about it.<\/p>\n<p><em>Where was the first place I started?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In my family. With my spouse. I started paying attention. I also listened when God told me to &#8220;be quiet &amp; back off.&#8221; My frustration and irritation with my spouse was not helping what God was trying to do in his heart. In fact, I was in the way. (Ouch!)<\/p>\n<p>I started paying more attention to my kids and trying to be present when I was with them. I tried not to be distracted by my phone or on Facebook or Twitter.<\/p>\n<p><em>Where else did I pay attention?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>At work. To the people in the cubicles next to me. I started listening and asking them about their families, their lives, their dreams. I took the time to get to know them.<\/p>\n<p>I started truly listening to God when He prompted me. If I felt led, I would reach out to someone at church. Someone I didn&#8217;t know and typically wouldn&#8217;t reach out to. I started obeying God faster. Even when it didn&#8217;t make sense, or I felt uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>I started doing more random acts of kindness. Without telling anyone about it. I started helping when I saw a need. Sometimes it was incredibly simple. Other times, it requires some sacrifice.<\/p>\n<p><em>But, guess what happened?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>God started blessing me just as much (if not more) than those I was paying attention to. And people started opening up to me. Other people weren&#8217;t paying attention to them. They felt they could be transparent with me. And all I did was listen.<\/p>\n<p>I am still learning when it comes to obeying God and learning to make a difference where I am. But I am now encouraging others to do the same.<\/p>\n<p>It doesn&#8217;t require heroic effort, usually. The majority of the time, I am amazed at how God uses the simplest acts of obedience to bless someone else.<\/p>\n<p>How has someone made a difference in your life recently?<\/p>\n<p>What can you do today to make a difference for someone around you?<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I am honored to have Tammy Helfrich guest post today.\u00a0 She is a remarkable and godly woman whom I have had the pleasure of meeting on the Micheal Hyatt Platform Launch Team.\u00a0 I really enjoy reading her posts as she never fails to bless me.\u00a0 Please be sure to follow her Blog\u00a0|\u00a0Facebook\u00a0|\u00a0Twitter. 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